{"title":"The PORT Institute","description":"\u003cp\u003eSteve, I had a thought. I think it's brilliant. Follow along....\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eMost therapists want a website and many don't want to deal with it.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eFor some, we can create a domain like 'port institute' and simply forward it to the therapist's 'collection' in Shopify. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eI can make it nicer.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThen, we add the affiliate program to the domain name like 'port institute.'\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThen whenever the therapist sends a client to their page like 'port institute', if the client buys something the therapist gets the affiliate payout. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eThis will highly incentivize therapists to use the website.\u003c\/p\u003e","products":[{"product_id":"port2","title":"PORT Level 2: Essential skills for practicing Integrated couples therapy","description":"Dates: June 11, 18, 25 \u0026amp; July 2 from 11 AM -1:30 PM New Zealand Time\n\n\u003ch2\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eSkills course for relationship therapists\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eSkillful implementation of couples therapy skills is essential for client growth and success. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eWhether you're starting a new working with couples or looking to hone your skills, it's important to centre your practice on research and clinical experience. 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CE Credits\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"5734\" data-end=\"5881\"\u003eGraduates receive a \u003cstrong data-start=\"5754\" data-end=\"5794\"\u003eCertificate of Completion (20 hours)\u003c\/strong\u003e verifying completion of PORT Level 1 and eligibility for \u003cstrong data-start=\"5852\" data-end=\"5878\"\u003ePORT Level 2 enrolment\u003c\/strong\u003e.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cblockquote data-start=\"5883\" data-end=\"6108\"\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"5885\" data-end=\"6108\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"5885\" data-end=\"5929\"\u003eContinuing Education Units (CEUs \/ CPD):\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr data-start=\"5929\" data-end=\"5932\"\u003e\u003cem data-start=\"5934\" data-end=\"6106\"\u003eAustralia: 10 OPD Points  - Australia Counselling Association (Pending)\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"5885\" data-end=\"6108\"\u003e\u003cem data-start=\"5934\" data-end=\"6106\"\u003eUnited States: 20 CE Hours - NASW, NBCC via EngagedMInds (Pending)\u003c\/em\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6118\" data-end=\"6140\"\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"6520\" data-end=\"6523\"\u003e\n\u003ch2 data-start=\"6525\" data-end=\"6542\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6528\" data-end=\"6542\"\u003eInvestment\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"6546\" data-end=\"6608\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6546\" data-end=\"6561\"\u003eCourse Fee:\u003c\/strong\u003e $695\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"6611\" data-end=\"6666\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6611\" data-end=\"6624\"\u003eIncludes:\u003c\/strong\u003e Lifetime access + PORT Level 1 exam fee\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-start=\"6788\" data-end=\"6791\"\u003e\n\u003ch2 data-start=\"6793\" data-end=\"6833\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6796\" data-end=\"6833\"\u003eBegin Your Journey Toward Mastery\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"6835\" data-end=\"7067\"\u003ePORT Level 1 equips you with the \u003cstrong data-start=\"6868\" data-end=\"6875\"\u003emap\u003c\/strong\u003e of modern couples therapy — its history, theory, and neuroscience.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"6835\" data-end=\"7067\"\u003e\u003cbr data-start=\"6942\" data-end=\"6945\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6945\" data-end=\"6961\"\u003ePORT Level 2\u003c\/strong\u003e will teach you to \u003cstrong data-start=\"6980\" data-end=\"6996\"\u003ewalk the map\u003c\/strong\u003e, applying the models through practice, supervision, and live feedback.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cblockquote data-start=\"7069\" data-end=\"7193\"\u003e\n\u003cp data-start=\"7071\" data-end=\"7193\"\u003eStart here. Build your foundation.\u003cbr data-start=\"7105\" data-end=\"7108\"\u003eThen step confidently into Level 2 to develop the art of real-time relational work.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003c\/blockquote\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Thinkific","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":47693976371491,"sku":"","price":695.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0722\/8266\/9347\/files\/214582_custom_site_themes_id_mxTNbjknQmOb4CCUY7u5_PORTPICThinkific.png?v=1712582805"},{"product_id":"betrayal-series","title":"Better After Betrayal Intensive: Mapping the Journey to Trust (Levels 1 \u0026 2)","description":"\u003cp data-end=\"1149\" data-start=\"831\"\u003eBetter After Betrayal Intensive Level 1 \u0026amp; 2 - Early Registration $995 (full price will be $1295)\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1149\" data-start=\"831\"\u003eParticipants will get full access to Level 1 at registration. Level 2 will start September 1, 2026 at 12 Noon NZ time \/ 10 AM Sydney time. \u003ca rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/spreadsheets\/d\/1DUPu9wvkcgK63Qs6YlCJ8fbaVmyU4ritTj4UZLnKiPY\/edit?usp=sharing\" target=\"_blank\"\u003eSee calendar here.\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1149\" data-start=\"831\"\u003eContinuing Education: Approved by the \u003ca rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/theaca.pointsbuild.com.au\/theaca\/5910-better-after-betrayal-intensive-mapping-the-journey-to-trust\" target=\"_blank\"\u003eAustralian Counselling Association\u003c\/a\u003e for 10 OPD Points\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1149\" data-start=\"831\"\u003eSupporting couples after an affair is some of the most challenging therapeutic work we face. Clients arrive dysregulated, frightened, shame-filled, or defensive. Sessions can escalate quickly. Therapists must hold safety, track multiple states, manage disclosures, guide regulation, and maintain clarity all at once.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1358\" data-start=\"1151\"\u003eThis 20-hour Intensive gives you a \u003cstrong data-end=\"1216\" data-start=\"1186\"\u003ecomplete, structured model\u003c\/strong\u003e for safely and confidently guiding clients from the initial shock of betrayal through to genuine repair, reconnection, and secure attachment.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1480\" data-start=\"1360\"\u003eDeveloped and taught by PORT Clinical Director\u003cbr data-end=\"1409\" data-start=\"1406\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"1450\" data-start=\"1409\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"whitespace-normal\"\u003eSteven Dromgool\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e, this course brings together:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1498\" data-start=\"1484\"\u003e- neurobiology\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1521\" data-start=\"1501\"\u003e- attachment science\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1547\" data-start=\"1524\"\u003e- developmental mapping\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1573\" data-start=\"1550\"\u003e- structured disclosure\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1599\" data-start=\"1576\"\u003e- somatic co-regulation\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1626\" data-start=\"1602\"\u003e- trust repair protocols\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1650\" data-start=\"1629\"\u003e- live demonstrations\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1687\" data-start=\"1653\"\u003e- practitioner tools and templates\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1775\" data-start=\"1689\"\u003eYou’ll walk away with \u003cstrong data-end=\"1749\" data-start=\"1711\"\u003eclarity, structure, and confidence\u003c\/strong\u003e for when it matters most.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-end=\"1780\" data-start=\"1777\"\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"1812\" data-start=\"1782\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"1812\" data-start=\"1786\"\u003eWho This Course Is For\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1874\" data-start=\"1814\"\u003eDesigned for practitioners across Australia and New Zealand:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1891\" data-start=\"1878\"\u003e- Counsellors\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1909\" data-start=\"1894\"\u003e- Psychologists\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1930\" data-start=\"1912\"\u003e- Psychotherapists\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1949\" data-start=\"1933\"\u003e- Social Workers\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"1971\" data-start=\"1952\"\u003e- Family Therapists\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2003\" data-start=\"1974\"\u003e- Mental Health Practitioners\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2041\" data-start=\"2006\"\u003e- Relationship \u0026amp; Couples Therapists\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2102\" data-start=\"2044\"\u003e- Individual clinicians who frequently see betrayal themes\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2261\" data-start=\"2104\"\u003eIf you support clients navigating infidelity, mistrust, confusing disclosures, emotional volatility, or complex attachment injuries; then this training is for you.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-end=\"2266\" data-start=\"2263\"\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"2321\" data-start=\"2268\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"2321\" data-start=\"2272\"\u003eWhat You’ll Be Able to Do After This Training\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2360\" data-start=\"2323\"\u003eBy the end of this program, you will:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2424\" data-start=\"2364\"\u003e- Confidently structure all four phases of betrayal recovery\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2516\" data-start=\"2427\"\u003e- Stabilise highly reactive couples using somatic and relational co-regulation strategies\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2587\" data-start=\"2519\"\u003e- Identify gaslighting dynamics and manage reality distortion safely\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2645\" data-start=\"2590\"\u003e- Conduct structured disclosure without escalating harm\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2745\" data-start=\"2648\"\u003e- Understand the neurobiological impact of betrayal (shock, identity collapse, threat perception)\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2807\" data-start=\"2748\"\u003e- Guide couples toward predictable, safe relational rhythms\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2869\" data-start=\"2810\"\u003e- Rebuild attachment using the baby\/child\/adult brain model\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"2957\" data-start=\"2872\"\u003e- Support clients to develop “Relationship 2.0”—a meaningful, more secure partnership\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"3023\" data-start=\"2960\"\u003e- Reduce therapist overwhelm using clear session maps and tools\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"3815\" data-start=\"3753\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"3879\" data-start=\"3825\"\u003eThe Pre-Course Foundations \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"3943\" data-start=\"3919\"\u003eThree essential primers are included in this training. These prepare you for the concepts of the full 20 hour course.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"3994\" data-start=\"3947\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"3992\" data-start=\"3947\"\u003e- 5 Challenges Couples Face After an Affair\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4021\" data-start=\"3997\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"4019\" data-start=\"3997\"\u003e- Betrayal First Aid\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4045\" data-start=\"4024\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"4043\" data-start=\"4024\"\u003e- Mapping the Why\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4163\" data-start=\"4047\"\u003eThese provide critical context for the full framework and help ensure you start the Intensive prepared and grounded.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"4234\" data-start=\"4170\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"4232\" data-start=\"4173\"\u003eFour Demonstration Sessions With Clinical Commentary\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4396\" data-start=\"4265\"\u003eWatch real clinical footage of\u003cbr data-end=\"4298\" data-start=\"4295\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"4339\" data-start=\"4298\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"whitespace-normal\"\u003eSteven Dromgool\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e working with betrayal dynamics.\u003cbr data-end=\"4374\" data-start=\"4371\"\u003eSee, moment-by-moment:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4436\" data-start=\"4400\"\u003e- how to track nervous system states\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4464\" data-start=\"4439\"\u003e- when to scaffold safety\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4504\" data-start=\"4467\"\u003e- how to intervene without escalation\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4546\" data-start=\"4507\"\u003e- how to restore connection organically\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4600\" data-start=\"4549\"\u003e- what to say (and not say) during critical moments\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4731\" data-start=\"4602\"\u003eThese are rarely offered in betrayal-focused trainings and are consistently cited as the most transformative part of the program.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"4804\" data-start=\"4738\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"4802\" data-start=\"4741\"\u003ePractitioner Toolkit (Downloadable Templates \u0026amp; Guides)\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4869\" data-start=\"4860\"\u003eIncludes:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4918\" data-start=\"4873\"\u003e- Safety plan and session structure templates\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4950\" data-start=\"4921\"\u003e- Fidelity contract framework\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"4999\" data-start=\"4953\"\u003e- Structured disclosure preparation worksheets\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5035\" data-start=\"5002\"\u003e- Co-regulation scripts \u0026amp; prompts\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5119\" data-start=\"5081\"\u003e- Developmental\/sexual blueprint tools\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5171\" data-start=\"5122\"\u003e- Therapist checklists for each phase of recovery\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5224\" data-start=\"5173\"\u003eEverything you need to support clients immediately.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"5282\" data-start=\"5231\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"5280\" data-start=\"5234\"\u003eRelational Brain Model: Clinician Guide\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5360\" data-start=\"5315\"\u003eA practical, easy-to-apply model integrating:\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5383\" data-start=\"5364\"\u003e- attachment theory\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5413\" data-start=\"5386\"\u003e- nervous system regulation\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5438\" data-start=\"5416\"\u003e- polyvagal principles\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5477\" data-start=\"5441\"\u003e- pacing and timing of interventions\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5519\" data-start=\"5480\"\u003e- truth-testing and congruence tracking\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5595\" data-start=\"5521\"\u003eTransforms complex neuroscience into accessible, session-ready strategies.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5728\" data-start=\"5630\"\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 data-end=\"5787\" data-start=\"5735\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"5785\" data-start=\"5738\"\u003eCertificate of Completion \u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"5925\" data-start=\"5788\"\u003eSupports annual CPD requirements across major Australian and New Zealand professional bodies. Approved by the ACA for 10 OPD points.\u003cbr data-end=\"5884\" data-start=\"5881\"\u003e\u003cbr\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"6241\" data-start=\"6218\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"6239\" data-start=\"6222\"\u003eLevel 1 Course Format\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6271\" data-start=\"6244\"\u003e- 20 hours of video content\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6315\" data-start=\"6274\"\u003e- Structured modules with guided practice\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6342\" data-start=\"6318\"\u003e- Demonstration sessions\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6366\" data-start=\"6345\"\u003e- Printable resources\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6381\" data-start=\"6369\"\u003e- Self-paced\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6401\" data-start=\"6384\"\u003e- Mobile-friendly\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6421\" data-start=\"6404\"\u003e- Lifetime access\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e-Certificate on completion\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-start=\"6218\" data-end=\"6241\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-start=\"6222\" data-end=\"6239\"\u003eLevel 1 Course Format\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e- 8 Weekly live training\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e- 2.5 Hours per week to enhance learning\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e- Practice the most important trust building skills\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e- Learn to manage anxiety and stress during intense betrayal therapy\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e- 1 Week Break:\u003cstrong\u003e \u003cem\u003e\u003ca rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/docs.google.com\/spreadsheets\/d\/1SwyIhvjnUfOiB-tzmO-XjEouMT9Df9TNbzoSJjlbaLY\/edit?usp=sharing\" target=\"_blank\"\u003eSee Full Schedule\u003c\/a\u003e\u003c\/em\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"6486\" data-start=\"6458\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"6486\" data-start=\"6462\"\u003eAbout the Instructor\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6598\" data-start=\"6490\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"6531\" data-start=\"6490\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"hover:entity-accent entity-underline inline cursor-pointer align-baseline\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"whitespace-normal\"\u003eSteven Dromgool\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"6534\" data-start=\"6531\"\u003eClinical Director, PORT (Presence-Oriented Relationship Therapy)\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"6893\" data-start=\"6600\"\u003eSteven is a leading clinician in betrayal recovery, known for his structured, safety-focused, neurobiologically-informed approach to couples therapy. He brings warmth, clarity, and over 15 years of specialist experience helping couples rebuild connection and secure attachment after affairs.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003chr data-end=\"6898\" data-start=\"6895\"\u003e\n\u003ch4 data-end=\"6925\" data-start=\"6900\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"6925\" data-start=\"6904\"\u003eProfessional FAQs\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h4\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"7103\" data-start=\"6927\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"6973\" data-start=\"6927\"\u003eIs this course suitable for new graduates?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"7103\" data-start=\"6927\"\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"6976\" data-start=\"6973\"\u003eYes. Early-career practitioners often report this training gives them clarity and confidence they wish they’d had from day one.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"7275\" data-start=\"7105\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"7140\" data-start=\"7105\"\u003eIs this recognised for CPD\/OPD?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"7275\" data-start=\"7105\"\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"7143\" data-start=\"7140\"\u003e\u003ca rel=\"noopener\" href=\"https:\/\/theaca.pointsbuild.com.au\/theaca\/5910-better-after-betrayal-intensive-mapping-the-journey-to-trust\" target=\"_blank\"\u003eAustralian Counselling Association: Approved for 10 OPD Points\u003c\/a\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"7178\" data-start=\"7175\"\u003eMost practitioners use this for annual CPD hours, please check your accrediting body’s guidelines.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"7387\" data-start=\"7277\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"7319\" data-start=\"7277\"\u003eIs it relevant for individual therapy?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"7387\" data-start=\"7277\"\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"7322\" data-start=\"7319\"\u003eAbsolutely. Betrayal issues appear frequently in individual work. \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"7513\" data-start=\"7389\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"7423\" data-start=\"7389\"\u003eHow practical is the training?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"7513\" data-start=\"7389\"\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"7426\" data-start=\"7423\"\u003eExtremely. You receive scripts, templates, checklists, and real-session demonstrations.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch5 data-end=\"7585\" data-start=\"7515\"\u003e\u003cstrong data-end=\"7551\" data-start=\"7515\"\u003eDo I need the short course first?\u003c\/strong\u003e\u003c\/h5\u003e\n\u003cp data-end=\"7585\" data-start=\"7515\"\u003e\u003cbr data-end=\"7554\" data-start=\"7551\"\u003eIt’s helpful, but not required. If you register for the Better After Betrayal Introduction, and decide to register for the intensive, we will refund the cost of the introduction course. Email admin@relate.online.\u003cspan data-end=\"7609\" data-start=\"7596\"\u003e\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Thinkific","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":48020201275683,"sku":"","price":995.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0722\/8266\/9347\/files\/Untitleddesign-2024-04-08T171353.425.png?v=1712614528"},{"product_id":"5-challenges-couples-face-after-an-affair","title":"5 Challenges Couples Face after an Affair: Introduction to working with Affairs, Betrayal and Infidelity","description":"\u003ch2 class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eInfidelity, Betrayal, Gaslighting, Staggered Disclosure, Dysregulated clients\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA white-space-prewrap text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eIs it any wonder that most therapists even couples therapists want to avoid these couples at all costs. Yet according to research, betrayal is the reason why 50% of couples present for therapy.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eHow a PORT trained therapist helps a couple:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eCalm their Nervous Systems\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eEscape Interrogation Spirals\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eReestablish Trust\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eSteven Dromgool is Relate’s Clinical Director and has specialised in working with Betrayal and Affairs over the last decade. Trained in 6 different approaches to couples therapy Steven is passionate about supporting clinicians and clients to heal, grow and protect their families.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eThis seminar will look at 5 common challenges couples face and some strategies to help them negotiate that:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp class=\"cvGsUA direction-ltr align-start para-style-body\"\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003e5 Challenges Couples Face\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eDisclosure - Escaping the Interrogation Spiral\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA white-space-prewrap text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eBetrayal Shock - Empowering Clients with Hope\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA white-space-prewrap text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eGaslighting - Delusion, Confusion, Chaos and Denial\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA white-space-prewrap text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eReestablishing Safety - Fidelity Contracts\u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA white-space-prewrap text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003e \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan class=\"OYPEnA text-decoration-none text-strikethrough-none\"\u003eCo-Regulation - Using the Attachment Bond  \u003c\/span\u003e\n\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e","brand":"Thinkific","offers":[{"title":"Price","offer_id":48032419479843,"sku":"","price":50.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0722\/8266\/9347\/files\/Untitleddesign-2024-04-09T161152.541.png?v=1712697864"},{"product_id":"couples-therapy-childhood-trauma","title":"Using Couples Therapy to Help with Childhood Trauma","description":"\u003ch2 dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRelationship Counselling can be a powerful way to help a person work through early life trauma. \u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA partner's presence, emotional grounding and support can ease the challenges of trauma therapy. this video course contains an interview of Relate’s team of relationship counsellors and their perspectives and strategies of using couples therapy to help  couples work through childhood issues. not surprisingly, couples that use relationship therapy to work through trauma experience a deepening of connection, relationship resilience and communication.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eClick on the video to the see an example of this course.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThis course has 12 lessons:\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003col\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow to support your partner-survivor with childhood trauma\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eIs couples therapy appropriate for our situation?\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eRemoving blame and meeting needs\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eA story about healing\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eChildhood trauma frequency and the role of healthy relationships in strengthening society\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eFlexibility and Presence\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe problem with reenactment cycles\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHelping dissociation and avoidance\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eHow trauma affects stages of the relationship cycle\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eUsing physical connection to manage stress\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eBeing emotionally present\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli role=\"presentation\" dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eDate nights and flirting\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ol\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e \u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch1\u003e\u003c!----\u003e\u003c\/h1\u003e","brand":"Thinkific","offers":[{"title":"Price","offer_id":48585891643683,"sku":"","price":30.0,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0722\/8266\/9347\/files\/childhood_trauma.png?v=1738096396"},{"product_id":"after-the-affair","title":"After the Affair: Decoding the Sexual Blueprint for Betrayal Disclosure","description":"\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eElevate your practice: Gain confidence and expertise in navigating affair disclosures and transforming unhealthy relationship patterns\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eCouples struggle with the impact on their relationship of changing cultural narratives. Traditionally, in Western European cultures people had limited romantic partner options and settled into committed, monogamous heterosexual relationships for life. Affairs and other indiscretions were addressed by the church and couples should ‘stay together for the sake of the children.’ This narrative is changing and ‘once a cheater always a cheater’ and ‘you can do better’ encourage separation. At the same time online dating apps and the visibility of ethically non-monogamous life-styles lead many couples and individuals to question the role or need of commitment within relationships. At the same time increasing social isolation means that the expectations for social, emotional and intimate support within relationships are These societal changes highlight the prevalence of ‘trust breaches’ within relationships. Often an individual’s behavior is driven by their developmental history of which they are generally unaware of. This presentation examines Presence Oriented Relationship Therapy’s Sexual and Developmental Blueprint which is designed to help individuals understand the developmental, behavioural, contextual, social and emotional drivers of their sexual and relational behaviour. Relationship counselors need to help clients identify their values, beliefs, longings as well as their sexual and developmental history.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eCreating this developmental and sexual map or blueprint is not something that is typically taught systematically and often relies on the therapist’s own formulation (which may or may not be articulated).  Yet this deprives the client of the opportunity to more fully explore and articulate their own understanding of their life narrative and to have this available for future explaining and updating.  \u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe Certified Sex Addiction Therapy (CSAT) model is one of the few approaches that tends to try and develop this blueprint for use within a “Full Disclosure’ process where a sex addict discloses all of their sexual acting out behaviour to a partner.  However the CSAT model has limitations for couples work which include an individual focus, abstinence as a goal, complete disclosure which is often an unnecessarily long and painful process. Furthermore the CSAT model presumes sex addiction and many betraying partners are not sex addicts.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePresence-Oriented Relationship Therapy (PORT) has developed a hybrid model integrating some of the CSAT process with the Erotic Blueprint, components of the Adult Attachment Inventory and PORT's Relational Brain Model. Combining clinical insights within the ideas of these counselling modalities, the Sexual and Developmental Blueprint gives counsellors a structured process to help support clients through developing their own sexual and developmental blueprint.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cb\u003e\u003c\/b\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003ePORT’s Sexual and Developmental Blueprint is a new project that is designed to help clients gain insight into their past sexual and relational behavior. It utilizes the concepts of the \"4 loves\" to identify and explain sexual and relational milestones correlating with PORT's Relational Brain Model. The protocol takes place over 16 week using desensitization principles to manage shame, narrative principles to identify strengths, identification of unexpressed desires and urges. While the original purpose of PORT’s Sexual and Developmental Blueprint is to help couples dealing with infidelity increase their level of insight and self-compassion the Developmental and Sexual Blueprint can be used for a wide range of therapeutic purposes.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eAffair therapy is not primarily motivated by either keeping the couple together or separating them. Positive outcomes are based on either increased tru\u003c\/span\u003e\u003cspan\u003est and commitment in a continued relationship or mitigating betrayal shock and acrimony in separating partners. 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Depression, on the other hand, is characterized by low mood, loss of interest in activities, and various physical and emotional symptoms. Importantly, relationship problems were highlighted as a potential root cause of depressive symptoms. So, how do we treat these prevalent conditions? The gold standard approaches were discussed, including medication and psychotherapy.\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch2 dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eResearch on Anxiety and Depression in Relationships\u003c\/span\u003e\u003c\/h2\u003e\n\u003cp dir=\"ltr\"\u003e\u003cspan\u003eThe connection between anxiety, depression, and relationship distress is backed by compelling research. Findings reveal strong correlations between anxiety disorders and relationship distress, including how marital quality can impact the onset of anxiety. The consequences of depression, such as emotional contagion and the powerful influence of social support. 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