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Relate Unlimited - Every Course, Skill and Strategy for One Price

Conversations with our therapists and visiting experts.  Short and long courses on all things Relational. It’s what you need to know to create great relationships.  Regularly updated and interactive - send in your questions for tailored answers.  Always available on any device, it's there when you need it. All offered for the monthly cost of a Netflix subscription.

Relate Unlimited will help you answer questions like: 

Can my relationship be better? 
Will couples therapy help? 
What are the secrets of awesome relationships? 
Why do we fight (even though we want to stop)?
Why does it feel like we are speaking different languages? 
And many, many more.

Relate Unlimited also includes specialized courses including:

How do I survive a betrayal? 
Escaping toxic masculinity?
Managing sex and pornography addiction
As therapists we know the need is vastly greater than our capacity to see clients.  Combining great therapy with key information helps us become more effective, therapy is easier, faster cheaper and more powerful. We want to make Relate Unlimited irresistible.
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Unlimited Access

We priced Relate Unlimited at $15, because Netflix is $15 a month and a decent lunch is $15. In our minds making your relationship better is worth at least the cost of Netflix or lunch.
And just to make it easier we even included a free trial to see if you agree …
3 Day Trial

The Library includes over 20 Courses. Here are 3 very helpful options.

The 5 Secrets of Relationship Champions

Focused, Solution Driven Information The 5 Secrets of Relationship Champions gives you the 5 most important lessons couples learn in the first months of therapy - in 60 minutes.

What Divorcers Wish They Knew

28 lessons to help get your partner into counseling and then how to move through counseling quickly and effectively.

Relate's 30 Day Challenge

Relate’s ‘30-Day RelationshipRelate’s ‘30-Day RelationshipChallenge’ requires 3 minutes of focussed effort and attention a day for 30 days you create a better relationship the easy way, in small, manageable steps.

Broken Trust: How to Recover From Betrayal

This is a living course about recovering from affairs, infidelity, betrayals and broken trust. Students are encouraged to submit questions and new content is regularly added.

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Escaping Fight Club

Nobody likes fighting. Most conflicts are avoidable and certainly repairable. Slow down the pattern in 30 days and strengthen the connection you're seeking.

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Communication - Deepening the Dialogue

"Communication Problems" The #1 problem for couples. This is a 10 day course to add empathy, compassion, and validation to your relationship. You love your partner - this course shows you how to tell them...

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A Revolutionary Way to Better Connection and Improve Your Relationship

When couples get stuck they often need another perspective to get them unhooked - Einstein said:

“You can’t solve a problem at the level of thinking that got you into it.”

Relate’s therapy team combines over a century of training and therapy experience with modern relationship research, neuroscience. We have had the privilege of helping thousands of couples rediscover the magic of their connection.

At the start of Covid Relate’s clinical director, Steven Dromgool started developing online resources to support Relate’s couples through the lockdowns and resultant stress. There was a huge response to these and Relate was approached by the NZ Defense Force to provide resources for troops deployed overseas - 5 Secrets of Relationship Champions was the result and quickly proved to be a success particularly with men who found the shorter TED style talks easy to digest and understand. Since then Relate’s team has been steadily producing courses on topics ranging from betrayal recovery, addiction and pornography, connecting men in relationships, escaping fight club, 30 day reconnection guide, the communication bridge and more . . . Relate’s Resource Library Membership is just $15 USD per month and you can cancel anytime. For the cost of Netflix you can get access to tools that can transform not only your life but the lives of your children.

The Library

Relate's resource library gives you 24/7 access to the questions couples just like you have asked over the years and the chance to interact and pose your questions for the team and the rest of the community. For us its all about connection!

What this unique community gives you...

  • 200+ targeted lessons to give you a lifetime of strategies.
  • Limited Offer: Free Professional Consultation for the 1st 50 new clients ($50 USD value, available after first billing)
  • Monthly Relationship Tune-Ups to ensure your relationship stays strong
  • Q&A with the Experts Get access to the community chat to get answers to your questions

The Library

Relate's resource library gives you 24/7 access to the questions couples just like you have asked over the years and the chance to interact and pose your questions for the team and the rest of the community. For us its all about connection!

What this unique community gives you...

  • 200+ targeted lessons to give you a lifetime of strategies.
  • Limited Offer: Free Professional Consultation for the 1st 50 new clients ($50 USD value, available after first billing)
  • Monthly Relationship Tune-Ups to ensure your relationship stays strong
  • Q&A with the Experts Get access to the community chat to get answers to your questions

Learn about special topics that may impact you...

Sex and Pornography Addiction in Relationships

Is sex and pornography becoming a problem in your relationship? We explore the impact of sex and porn addiction on couples. There is much taboo and shame around this topic so we encourage a supportive and non-judgemental environment.

Escaping Toxic Masculinity

Gender roles have changed. Men are challenged to know the best way to support their family in a way that creates excitement, safety, intimacy and passion. This course supports men (and women) in their journey to find their masculine identity.

The Search for Ourselves

This course is a road map to discover one's true self, embrace authenticity, and cultivate a deeper understanding of personal values and beliefs.

Create the environment for your children to grow up... and have happy relationships

A good relationship is the key to health and longevity -Harvard Study on Adult Development

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Hope: The Key to Relationship Happiness

What belief is at the core of most relationship struggles? What are the secrets to dispelling this myth? This book explores the myth that most people hold about relationships and how belief in this myth causes relationships to suffer. 

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Connection Windows or the "I Never Felt so Loved" Feeling

Why do some couples feel safe and loved although they live hectic and chaotic lives? This course will teach you how to create a lasting love in 20 minutes a day.

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Paradox in Relationship: Loving with the Whole Brain

Have you ever wondered why at one moment you can't stand your partner, but you can't stand being apart? This course explores the roots of relationship mysteries and gives practical strategies to use our paradoxical nature to grow closer.

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3 Day Trial Offer Terms and Conditions

After the trial period ends members will be automatically billed to the card on file. Our intent is to offer these services at the lowest possible rate so we do not refund for partial months or if you forget to cancel the subscription before the trial period ends. When you cancel the membership you will have access to the library until the end of the billing month.