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Relate was started because of a Failed Relationship Counselling

"When my marriage was in trouble, we went to a therapist who was a good individual therapist, but not trained in working with couples therapy. My ex, and I sat in front of him arguing and going nowhere - eventually we decided we could fight at home for free. When we were running out of hope, I mentioned the idea of counselling again. She said we've already done that and it didn't work. We divorced.

I was a therapist myself and I still didn't know what was missing. When I discovered that there were specialist approaches couples counselling I embarked on a mission to learn all I could and equip other therapists with the skills they needed to help our clients succeed.

The foundation of Relate is the belief that couples and our kids deserve the absolute best in terms of training and support for the relationship clinicians who help us navigate the challenges of relationships.

Relate is a team of relationship therapists who share this passion.

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Where do I start to find a couples counsellor?

If you are struggling in your relationship, you are likely to face 3 key challenges:

  1. How do you find the right marriage therapist?
  2. Who do you trust?
  3. What will it cost?

Find the right Relationship Professional

Pre-therapy consults to match you with the right couples counsellor for you book here.

All our team members (including our interns) are trained in a minimum of two approaches to couples therapy.

Our in-house model, Presence Oriented Relationship Therapy (PORT) integrates insights from 6 models of Relationship therapy including Imago, Gottman, EFT, Developmental Method, PACT and HEART

Get Help Now with Online Resources

We have an extensive (and growing) library of digital resources available for the cost of a Netflix subscription check out the free trial here.

Book an Assessment

If you have a complex challenge you can book a 2 hour Rapid Assessment with our Director Steven here.

If you are facing a catastrophic problem e.g. an affair/ someone threatening to leave etc. you can book a 3 hour in-depth assessment with Steven here.

Relate Unlimited: Every Course Skill and Strategy for One Price

Relate Unlimited - it’s all the good stuff! Conversations with our therapists and visiting experts.  Short and long courses on all things Relational. It’s what you need to know to create great relationships.  Regularly updated and interactive - send in your questions for tailored answers.  Always available on any device, it's there when you need it.

All offered for the monthly cost of a Netflix subscription.

Relate Unlimited will help you answer questions like: 

  • Can my relationship be better? 
  • Will couples therapy help? 
  • What are the secrets of awesome relationships? 
  • Why do we fight (even though we want to stop)?
  • Why does it feel like we are speaking different languages? 
  • And many, many more.

Relate Unlimited also includes specialized courses including:

  • How do I survive a betrayal? 
  • Escaping toxic masculinity?
  • Managing sex and pornography addiction

As therapists we know the need is vastly greater than our capacity to see clients.  Combining great therapy with key information helps us become more effective, therapy is easier, faster cheaper and more powerful. We want to make Relate Unlimited irresistible.

We priced Relate Unlimited at $15, because Netflix is $15 a month and a decent lunch is $15. In our minds making your relationship better is worth at least the cost of Netflix or lunch.

And just to make it easier we even included a free trial to see if you agree …

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Relate’s mission is to provide you with expert relationship counselling or couples therapy help.  We specialise in working with marriage and relationship issues for couples and singles.  Our team are experts in relationship counselling and are committed to help you improve or even rescue your relationship. Appointments are offered weekdays, after hours and weekends. Relationship Therapy Assessments and Intensives are also available.


I walked into our first session with Steven thinking our Marriage was over, we had not been intimate for over a year and our marriage was a cold, frozen wasteland. We walked out smiling and laughing and after a dinner where we actually talked we spent the evening in bed making love like it was the first time ever.
Steven is a magician - I almost didn't recognise my husband, he was relaxed and laughing and then he turned to me and apologised for the way he had missed me - there were tears in his eyes - I still can't believe it. We still struggle and get stuck sometimes but we know how to unhook ourselves and we are a team. Thank you for helping me find my man again.


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