Relate's International School of Love
Improve your communication, connection while learning about a number of relationship concerns... for just the cost of lunch or Netflix.
Do you need to Heal after Heartbreak and Communicate Better?
Do you want to Stop Fighting and Recapture Connection?
Do you want to Model Healthy Love & Break Family Patterns?
If any of these resonate with you, you're not alone
Most couples—about 80%—need to actively learn the skills to create the fulfilling relationship they envision. It’s never too late to start.
Why do you need to learn about healthy relationships?
Why do you need to learn about healthy relationships?
The School of Love has communication, conflict, connection, intimacy and special topic courses.
How do you access School of Love resources?
First register for the School of Love. Second, click the course you want to watch. Then click the link to go to the course.
The 5 Secrets of Relationship Champions
The 5 most important lessons that couples need to learn. Quit the power struggle! Stop driving your lover crazy! Stop fighting - Immediately! Build lasting love in 20 minutes a day! When relationships are going bad, we all feel hurt and alone. But you don't have to stay stuck!
What Divorcers Wish They Knew
Why do some couples benefit from therapy? Why do others waste a ton of money and divorce anyway? Learn how to get the most out of relationship counseling.
Secrets and Strategies to get the most out of couples therapy. If you want laughter and cuddles but don't know where to start. Look at the 20+ topics we address.
Communication: Deepening the Dialogue
"Communication Problems" The #1 problem for couples bringing them to couples therapy. This is a 10 day course to add empathy, compassion, and validation to your relationship. You love your partner - this course shows you how to tell them...
Escaping Fight Club
Nobody likes fighting. Most conflicts are avoidable and certainly repairable. Slow down the pattern in 30 days and strengthen the connection you're seeking.
Couples who are considering relationship therapy for fighting should watch this online course. Learn the ingredients of creating a fight. Fortunately, fighting typically follows a pattern. This course helps couples move through the therapy process quickly. However, fight patterns are typically automatic, this means you will need help.
Men and Women, Pursuers and Avoiders
How can it be that two people who love each other continue to misunderstand the other? This course explores the hidden dynamics of relationships.
Understanding these dynamics is a key step in creating a fulfilling relationship. This course includes the lesson 'Circle and the Ladder' which explains why men and women miss each other. You will learn how to better satisfy your partner by understanding the dynamic. Learn how to reconnect faster and identify how you make your partner a better partner.
Creating Healthy Male Identity - Escaping Toxic Masculinity
Men can embrace their changing gender roles and discover their authentic masculine identity, fostering excitement, safety, intimacy, and passion in supporting their families.
Men are often confused by what it means to be a man and what a man should do. This often causes relationship problems and leads men to a crisis point. Learn how men can use their authenticity and power to the benefit of their family.
School of Love Includes 20+ Relationship and Couples Courses
Every one of these courses are included in the School of Love.
Start Your 3 Day Trial TodayThe 5 Secrets of Relationship Champions
The 5 Secrets of Relationship Champions
Discover the key strategies used by the most resilient couples. Discover tools to strengthen communication, build trust, and resolve conflicts effectively.
What Divorcers Wish They Knew – Maximizing Couples Therapy
What Divorcers Wish They Knew – Maximizing Couples Therapy
Gain insights from those who’ve been through it. Learn how to make the most out of couples therapy and avoid common pitfalls.
Escaping Toxic Masculinity
Escaping Toxic Masculinity
Break free from limiting stereotypes. Explore healthier, more authentic ways to express masculinity and strengthen your relationships.
Escaping Fight Club
Escaping Fight Club
Put an end to the cycle of arguments. Master techniques for calming conflict, improving communication, andreconnecting with your partner.
Men and Women, Pursuers and Avoiders
Men and Women, Pursuers and Avoiders
Understand the unique dynamics of different attachment styles and learn strategies for bridging gaps in your relationship.
Communication - Deepening the dialogue
Communication - Deepening the dialogue
Take communication to the next level. Develop the skills for open, meaningful conversations that create deeper understanding and connection.
Live Events
Live School of Love Events
Join exclusive live events where experts dive into essential relationship topics, answer questions, and provide
actionable insights to enrich your relationship.
Coping with Anxiety and Depression in Your Relationship
Coping with Anxiety and Depression in Your Relationship
Learn tools to manage mental health challenges together, strengthening resilience and creating a supportive
environment for both partners.
Connection Windows or the "I Never Felt So Loved" Feeling
Connection Windows or the "I Never Felt So Loved" Feeling
Rediscover moments of deep connection and closeness. This course helps you recognize and create “windows” for
lasting intimacy.
Loving with the Whole Brain
Loving with the Whole Brain
Explore the science of connection, using a whole-brain approach to improve emotional understanding and
relationship dynamics.
Broken Trust: How to Recover from Betrayal
Broken Trust: How to Recover from Betrayal
Take steps to rebuild trust after betrayal. This course offers guidance on healing wounds and restoring faith in each
other.
Sex and Pornography Addiction in Relationships
Sex and Pornography Addiction in Relationships
Understand the impact of addiction on relationships and explore strategies for recovery, compassion, and individual growth.
Surviving a Breakup: Let Go of the Past and Move Forward
Surviving a Breakup: Let Go of the Past and Move Forward
Find support and direction for moving on from past relationships and rebuilding a positive, empowered sense of self.
Finding Authenticity: The Search for Ourselves
Finding Authenticity: The Search for Ourselves
Discover tools for self-discovery and authenticity, helping you bring a truer version of yourself into your relationships.
Emotions 101
Emotions 101
Master the basics of emotional awareness and expression. Learn to understand and communicate emotions in a healthy, constructive way.
Surviving the First Week after Being Betrayed
Surviving the First Week after Being Betrayed
Navigate the initial shock and pain of betrayal with guidance on self-care, emotional processing, and finding stability.
Hope: The Key to Relationship Happiness
Hope: The Key to Relationship Happiness
Explore how hope and optimism can transform your relationship, fostering a positive outlook and a stronger emotional bond.
30 Day Relationship Challenge
30 Day Relationship Challenge
Build connection daily with small, meaningful challenges designed to enhance understanding, joy, and closeness in just one month.
Fighting, Safety and Violence
Fighting, Safety and Violence
Gain insights into managing conflict safely and effectively, creating a secure space for addressing issues with respect.
The Sixth Secret: Understanding the Relationship Cycle
The Sixth Secret: Understanding the Relationship Cycle
Uncover the “sixth secret” to understanding the natural cycles of relationships and how to keep love and connection strong.
Help Your Relationship Survive and Thrive During the Holidays
Help Your Relationship Survive and Thrive During the Holidays
Navigate holiday stress together with strategies to strengthen your bond and make the season enjoyable and meaningful.
Using Couples Therapy to Help with Childhood Trauma
Using Couples Therapy to Help with Childhood Trauma
Understand how past trauma affects current relationships and learn therapeutic approaches to foster healing and growth.
How Does Relate's School of Love Make Relationships Better?
Relate’s unique resource library offers 24/7 access to real answers to the toughest questions couples have faced over the years. Here, you can not only explore proven strategies but also interact with our expert team and a supportive community, all focused on helping you create a thriving relationship.
- Targeted Video Relationship Guides: Watch demonstrations and in-depth
explanations on key topics like improving communication,
stopping conflicts, and rebuilding trust. - 200+ Lessons for Lifelong Skills: With hundreds of focused
lessons, you’ll gain strategies that last a lifetime. - Relationship Tune-Ups: Keep your relationship strong with
regular check-ins and refreshers designed to reinforce your
bond. - Expert Q&A Sessions: Join our community chat to ask your
questions and get real answers from the experts and peers alike.
Join a community that’s all about connection, growth, and
empowering you to build the relationship you truly want.
LIMITED OFFER
Free Professional Consultation for the 1st 50 new clients ($50 USD value, available after first billing)
Included Events for Members
Get access to the following live events. Go to the event you want and register.
School of Love: Professional Edition
This course is tailored specifically for relationship therapists and
couples counselors who want to deepen their expertise and bring
enhanced support to their clients. This comprehensive edition
includes everything offered in the core School of Love, with additional
specialized resources focused on professional development,
advanced therapeutic techniques, and real-world application.
Designed to expand your toolkit, the Professional Edition provides
exclusive access to case studies, advanced workshops, and peer
consultations that help refine your skills in handling complex
relationship dynamics. From tackling issues like infidelity,
communication breakdowns, and emotional trauma to fostering long-
term intimacy, this edition equips you with the insights needed to
guide couples through meaningful transformation.
Whether you’re an experienced therapist or newer to the field, the
School of Love Professional Edition is your path to becoming a trusted
expert in relational health and healing.
The School of Love Teaches People What They Need To Know About Relationships
First register for the School of Love. Second, click the course you want to watch. Then click the link to go to the course.
