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Escaping Fight Club: How to Stop Fighting

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Nobody likes fighting.  Most conflicts are avoidable and certainly repairable.  Slow down the pattern in 30 days and strengthen the connection you're seeking.

Couples who are considering relationship therapy for fighting should watch this online course. Learn the ingredients of creating a fight. Fortunately, fighting typically follows a pattern. This course helps couples move through the therapy process quickly. However, fight patterns are typically automatic, this means you will need help. 

In this course couples will learn:

  1. How dual monologues are the telltale sign of a coming fight
  2. How couple's behavior typically follows a typical relationship killer pattern

Course Curriculum

  1. Dual Monologues - The first requirement for a fight
  2. Dual Monologue Demo
  3. Antidotes to Dual Monologues
  4. Hot under the collar - Diffuse Physiological Arousal
  5. The Conflict Cycle - What is your contribution?
  6. The Relationship Killers: What are the Relationship Killers?
  7. Criticism
  8. Defensiveness
  9. Contempt
  10. Stonewalling

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